Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …
People who are single who desire to appreciate the Law of Attraction to create love sometimes come to me for advice. They wonder, “Can you create an incompatible lover?” The answer to that is Yes and No. I will explain. You create the “Wrong” lover based on what it is you project you want. That is, your words are projecting “I desire someone who is fun, loving, and passionate. Someone who treats me well” and your true subconscious intention is something more like … “I never get the correct woman. Why is it my friends get such a simple time of it? What’s wrong with me? Where are all of the eligible right for me women? And so on. So you are going to end up attracting more about what you are thinking and expecting. So is she wrong? Or is your thinking wrong? The Law of Attraction states what you focus on you get more of. So if you’re single and are searching for a relationship, you must focus on what it’s like to be in love, not the other way around.
A good exercise to change your thinking on this is by wielding a strong tool that Abraham-Hicks coaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.
You should wield this tool when you find you create some negative emotion and need to keep changing the direction of your attention and find a better feeling mindset. When you desire to strengthen your point of attraction because you have got a lot of negative vibrations. Here is how it works: you should do this by hand to get the hang of the exercise. I actually suggest that you always write a Book of Positive Aspects. You’ll want to give yourself at least 15 minutes for this exercise.
At the top of the paper put down the subject of what you want an improved vibrational set point on. Perhaps something has gotten your attention that you don’t like, you would rather not have it occurring, or perhaps you have acquired a large bit of judgment about this subject and feel bad. Write down what that is. Then notice that you know what you don’t want and the contrast has helped you to create the intention of what you actually desire. Your task is to put down a detailed the desires you want. And continue directing your attention to the better feeling desire. Write lists of what you like about what IS functioning, what is good, what you have that you DO like, even concerning the current life situation. Search for things to be appreciative of in the situation and in any outside or related situation. This will turn you to the positive attraction mode. You’ll attract what you desire instead of negative intentions. Test it out for yourself. Isn’t it time you had everything you wanted?