Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …
As a coach, giving advice on dating and relationships is my passion. Helping people with their vulnerabilities and concerns is important work. You feel particularly vulnerable when you’ve just started the dating process, everything is new in the relationship. You still feel like you need to know if they’ll stay committed. Wanda from Arizona asked “How do I know they’ll stay committed to the relationship”?
In my free 7 Secrets video, I explain how this question could fall under a couple categories. Your question could be related to finding clarity on the values you desire in your mate when you Make the List, or it could also fall under the building your Self-Esteem category.
But primarily as I see it, I think this concern falls under the lesson on learning how to Make Your List. You see, you may have had a partner who strayed, or wouldn’t commit and you may have been hurt deeply and yet when I coach you on how to make your list, you’ll also amplify your desire and gain clarity on what you want and why you want it. Writing the list is a great focusing tool. Focusing brings clarity and intentionality in what you desire. In making your list you’ll find out if you’re sending any mixed signals and then you’ll sweep them out.
You quickly understand that you have the power to ask for what you want and get it. What’s more, you get to say which elements are the ‘deal breakers’ when it comes to attracting your ideal love relationship.
It’s great to know that these principles also work in all areas of life, not just in love.
I teach so much more about how to Make Your List AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com