Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …
“I frequently tend to create the one who is emotionally unavailable. What can I do to alter my vibration”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the strongest complaint I had from my lengthy history of failed relationships. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived far away or was travelling a great deal.
When you continue creating unavailable lovers, my question to you is, “Is something in you that is afraid to commit, or afraid to be transparent in a love relationship”? That may be difficult to take in right now, but that is what I have found to be the case most of the time.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get really clear about what you want. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you want in your perfect mate.
You make the list for yourself so you can attain clarity concerning what it is you really want. You will start to realize where any weaknesses are in your vibration as you make the list. You’ll see where you should go to strengthen your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of receiving what you’re desiring.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectancy, next ask yourself the question “Why do I want it”? It is time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the fun activities you’ll do together. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it’ll be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you flowers.
You create the list for you, and the Universe responds to your clear vibration – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!
Many of us have been told from childhood to accept what you get, it is not kosher to ask for anything, why can you not just be happy with what you have? – kind of like brainwashing. I say you ask for it all and continue creating yourself into the fulfilment of your affirmations.